Yes you are a spec and so is every other person.
The beautiful thing is that no spec is self sufficient hence the need for another spec.
In choosing, you must first understand your spec and then you will know which spec to add to yours.
These few steps will help you choose right;
- The person must be one in your profession.
Both should have had a time together may be while learning, at internship, at outreaches, at Field work and the rest
Should be of the same faith OR be able to respect each other's faith.
Should be someone that is emotionally confident in his/herself.
One with same moral standard.
Should be ready to respect each other's differences
Both persons should be willing to share value.
Might not necessarily be of the same age.
Should be able to communicate freely and accept constructive critics.
One thing is sure, your prospect will not tick all these box. But guess what, if 70% is done then you are good to go.
We will by tomorrow see how professional friendship can help you grow in your career path.
written by Uduak-Abasi Uduak-obong Nkanta